Part 2 1B

We, as humans, tend to get emotional and we trust our instincts to lead us to where we are getting to, whether that be an actual place or winning an argument. During the debating or arguing process, when we think that we aren't being heard, we get louder, more forward, and try to win with comebacks; all in order to prove our point(s). Though when you are calm and collected, it will be the opposite, it allows your “opponents” to have the opportunity to listen to your ideas and your reasons in order to prove your point. In exchange they will most likely do the same thing, for they have no purpose to get emotional or use their instincts in order to win the argument. Being civil is something that people don’t tend to use on a daily basis, though this may be because of the fact that we see it everyday, and when we catch a glimpse of someone being uncivil, it’s a different sight. Usually, it will have mixed reactions, whether the person agrees with the individual’s argument; but most think that the individual is acting uncivilized, crazy, and too wild. Those that treat those in a civilized manner, tend to get farther than those that act ill-mannered.